I am not responsible for healing your wounds; I am your friend.
I am not responsible for making you happy; I am your friend.
I am not responsible for carrying you around; I am your friend.
One of the common issues that ruins friendships is people often clinging to their friends, expecting them to be their therapists, moms, tutors, and everything.
Such expectations often drain the other party. People need to understand that even the happy, joyful, therapeutic friend also has his/her own problems and life.
According to a recent study, 65% of individuals in friendships feel overwhelmed by the expectations placed on them by their friends. Sometimes, a friend feels like distancing him/herself for a while to detox.
LET THEM! Let them breathe; it’s their life, their space, their option.
Do not overcontrol your friends. There are boundaries, even with your closest besties. Being selfish and using your friend just as a vent often creates a sense of being used by the other party.
Also, just because your friend does not want to open up about certain personal issues does not mean that he/she does not like you or trust you. Sometimes we run away for an escape.
We don’t want to relive the same memories, scenarios, or re-feel the pain. Be your friend’s escape. Let them feel comfortable, messing and laughing around you.
Certain scars are hidden deep within; we don’t know how to express them, or for some reason, we feel like we are responsible for promoting happy vibes around us. Everyone is dealing with his/her demons deep down.
In today’s world of social media, where every post matters, celebrities and businesses skillfully position themselves as champions of justice. It’s almost like they’ve found a magic recipe – sprinkle a bit of social justice on your product, and watch profits rise like a superhero taking off.
But here’s the real question: Are these changes in allegiance genuine shifts in beliefs, or are they well-practiced performances aimed at grabbing attention and boosting sales?
On the global conflicts scale, public opinions are unpredictable. Recently, a noticeable shift has emerged in the support surrounding the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, with individuals and businesses who once waved the Israeli flag now leaning towards Palestine. What’s driving this change? It seems that it’s less about heartfelt convictions and more about the jingle of coins in pockets , “Money over principles “
And of course, when we talk about changing public support, we can’t forget our wise celebrities, the real experts on global affairs. The geopolitical analysts we never knew we needed. Because clearly, their Instagram posts are the key to understanding the complexities of international relations.
Critics may question their motives, but let’s not jump to conclusions. Celebrities, just like us mere mortals, share their profound wisdom based on their deep philosophical beliefs and, of course, the most reliable source of information – their gut feelings.
Their actions during a crisis? Using their influence responsibly and staying informed? Such a burden. We’re just lucky to witness them navigating the waters of geopolitics.
One example of this trend is Selena Gomez. Not too long ago, Gomez was vocal about her support for Israel. Fast forward to today, and she showed support to Palestine, through her makeup line, Rare Beauty.
The switch from backing Israel to rallying for Palestine might seem abrupt, but from a media point of view, celebrities are savvy operators in the business of public opinion. When the wind of popular sentiment changes, they swiftly adjust their sails to keep up. In Gomez’s case, it seems her move is less about geopolitics and more about capitalizing on a profitable market of socially aware consumers.
Celebrities, aware of their influence, align themselves with causes that not only match societal values but also promise financial gain. In similar cases, it’s not a deep understanding of the Middle East conflict but a strategic move to cater to socially conscious consumers. By championing Palestine, they manage to tap into a demographic that prioritizes ethical considerations. It’s a calculated move that not only brings in the applause but also shields celebrities from potential criticism, presenting them as a justice warrior rather than a profit chaser.
This is Cultural Materialism . It shows how economic considerations and material conditions influence the content, narratives, and expressions in media, including social media platforms. It provides a lens through which one can understand the relationship between profit-driven motivations and the cultural expressions that individuals, including celebrities, engage in, particularly in the context of the Israel-Palestine conflict.
In the context of celebrities and public figures shifting their stances on political issues for financial gain or increased visibility, Cultural Materialism helps us understand how economic incentives, including the potential for profit through enhanced brand image or expanded market reach, can influence public statements and advocacy efforts.
As we look at how people see the Israel-Palestine situation, it’s interesting to think about Noam Chomsky’s ‘Manufacturing Consent’ idea. Chomsky and Edward S. Herman came up with this theory that shows how media, often wanting to make money, quietly shapes the stories we hear. When famous figures change their minds, it’s like watching a hidden script being rewritten. Chomsky’s ideas make us question not just what’s said but also the stuff happening behind the scenes. In a world where being real is sometimes tricky, ‘Manufacturing Consent’ helps us understand how things work and why we think a certain way about complicated global stuff.
In conclusion, while the Israeli-Palestinian conflict remains deeply rooted and multifaceted, individuals and businesses play a significant role in shaping public opinion. By delving into the motivations behind shifts in allegiance, we can better understand whether these changes are rooted in sincere belief or driven by the pursuit of profit. And who knows, maybe in the world of strategic pivoting, there’s an award waiting for the best performance in “Supporting a Cause for Fun and Profit.”. Here’s to the puppeteers, the spin masters, and the celebrities-turned-geopolitical experts – may the show go on!
Tory Lanez jail call to Megan Thee Stallion’s ex-friend Kelsey Harris leaks, where he’s heard saying “I’d never did that sh*t if I wasn’t that drunk”
The call begins with Lanez asking Kelsey how the situation was at that point, to which she responded, “Megan‘s still in the hospital. I’m outside the hospital.”
A dad expressed his surprise and excitement after realizing that his son , in class 7, was being taught Tupac poem The Rose that Grew from Concrete and analyze the metaphor behind the late rapper’s words!
As well he should be taught. One of the the most relevant urban poets of our time
Tupac was a great poet, music is often the best way for great poets to be able to make a living from their gifts, Good the young can learn from Pac he was a revolutionary
| According to insider, Miley Cyrus’ new music video will feature a scene recreating the iconic 00s trinity. Miley will play Britney, Selena Gomez will play Lindsay Lohan, and Paris Hilton will play herself.
I really love it when artists Get creative in their MVs like doing references to a certain masterpiece (I’ve already discussed that in the previous blog lizzo ) , and even paying homage to certain moments or artist!
Nick Cannon says he travels all over like santa to meet his 11 children with 6 different women and has a 12th on the way.
Nick was in a jolly mood, saying he has the same vibe as Santa Claus … because they’ll be traveling all night long
Oh so he thinks he’s like Santa just paying a visit and dropping off gifts and money? So what happened with spending quality time with those kids the way they need their dad?! Priorities are definitely not there. Creating single mothers left and right…yeah HO HO HO MERRY XMAS!
Non of his kids will stand proud of their dad’s behavior by the time they become teens, and that’s where Nick did think about the kids and their future feelings by his intentional behavior.
Does he want a cookie or something?? He should be spending time with all his kids. Pathetic. Kids are not a joke.
Good luck getting to know them in depth, and building that special bond that comes with seeing a father everyday as a toddler.
I really don’t like when people use him having Lupus as a reason for wanting to have so many kids. So, him potentially dying young makes it a good idea for him to leave a bunch of kids fatherless? 😒
Adele name-dropped Meg at her Vegas residency show, saying she hopes she has a “very, very, Merry, Merry Christmas” … going on to say that she can now do whatever the hell she likes without this thing hanging over her like it has for the past 2 years.
Lindasaidthat 